Boy advice please!!!?

I’m gonna sound stupid but my honesty is going to be poured into this question. There’s this guy obviously (nervous laughter haha) umm I met him last year at a Polish gathering and there was dancing all night long, I danced with him at least 4 times. When it was time to go I gave him a hug and smile and told him it was nice to meet him and he did the same, but he didn’t ask for my number. So a year passes and without any contact I forgot about him until (dramatic sound effects) BAM this year at a surprise party. We didn’t talk or dance much because of a sadness that came upon me (still dealing with my mom’s death) He did try talking to me in a silly way of saying that he shouldn’t be swirling red wine in his cup over my white skirt, which he did get two drops of wine on me. He apologized so many times for what he did but I told him it was okay and laughed lightly. After that night I creeped him on facebook and added him as a friend. The next day he messaged me “Hey, how’s it going? We dancing it up again this year at Nilestown on Sunday?”. Yes that’s the exact message. We danced only once on Sunday. A few days later I decided to add him to my phone since he had his number on his facebook page. I texted him asking if he was going to the youth group bonfire, he said he was going to a concert. But on the friday the day of the bonfire one hour before he sent me a text saying “Have a good time at the Bonfire. I hope you have a BON time!” I told him that was a good one and it made me laugh. After that I haven’t spoken or texted him, We haven’t hung out 1 on 1 and when I try to get to know him it’s usually me initiating the conversation. Should I text him or have I already initiated enough for him to know that I like him and let him lead the way? Or is he just being nice? I’m sorry I wrote you guys this question that goes on forever. It would be really nice to have a guy’s opinion, I’m so awkward with guys, helppppppp! (nervous laughter lol)